Boundaries

by freeandflawed on January 28, 2009

I was just informed that my most recent ex, Dan, received an anonymous email last night telling him to leave me alone. I can’t help but think it was sparked by my last post.

That was completely overstepping boundaries. What gives you the right to contact anyone I know?

My last post was directed to someone else. Dan had no involvement in my train of thought. I am beyond disappointed after finding out what happened.

I’d hate to have to stop writing about my life here, but if this is what I can look forward to…

Please respect my privacy as well as my friends. Do not take it upon yourself to contact anyone. You might think you’re being helpful, but you’re not.

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1 LizSara January 28, 2009 at 8:30 am

No-one has the right to do that, it’s stepping far beyond the lines of friendship. Ugh

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2 Smidge January 28, 2009 at 8:32 am

Obviously someone who doesnt understand the point of blogging…! This would make me scream, i’ve just had to move my blog to avoid people who know me in real life.

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3 Arielle January 28, 2009 at 8:44 am

Dude that’s crazyyyy. I hope you have an idea who it was so you can speak to them about it. That’s wildly inappropriate.

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4 Dutchess of Kickball January 28, 2009 at 8:47 am

Holy crap. That must have taken some serious detective work to even find his email address. That is nuts. Definitely above and beyond the realm of proper behavior.

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5 Maxie January 28, 2009 at 8:56 am

that’s jacked up. :-(

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6 deutlich January 28, 2009 at 8:56 am

Good grief! Folks aren’t so good at minding their business, apparently. :(

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7 Hiope January 28, 2009 at 9:07 am

That is just plain scary. And wrong on so many levels.

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8 Accidentally Me January 28, 2009 at 9:16 am

Not only is it totally over the line, but it is kinda creepy, too.

Total BS…you have every right to be REALLY pissed off about this.

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9 Rachel M. January 28, 2009 at 9:35 am

So I shouldn’t send him my video of me yelling “Leave Jenn alone! Just leave her alone!” Well okay then, off to clean up my makeup.

I am soooo 2007

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10 Rebekah January 28, 2009 at 9:47 am

That was just uncalled for. I hope that whoever did that fesses up and apologizes. Not that that would really help or change anything, but you and Dan both deserve an apology for that overstep.

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11 Jacqueline @ Miss Musing January 28, 2009 at 9:55 am

The audacity of some people amazes me. It’s scary to think that someone would go to all the trouble to find that information. I’m so sorry you have to deal with this.

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12 d January 28, 2009 at 10:12 am

anyone who’s been reading your blog in any way should have been able to to tell that what you wrote wasn’t about him.

this is why we have delurking day, i suppose.

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13 chickbug January 28, 2009 at 10:14 am

wow. scary. i can imagine the person thought they were trying to help you…but this crossed the line.

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14 ashley. January 28, 2009 at 10:24 am

Woah!

You’re like a celeb or something – people are stalking you and you don’t have privacy. Weird.

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15 jamie January 28, 2009 at 10:26 am

Seriously, I hope someone ‘fesses up and apologizes. This was uncalled for.

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16 Erikka January 28, 2009 at 10:41 am

and how did they have this person’s contact info if they are not your friend too? scary. sorry Jenn.

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17 3carnations January 28, 2009 at 10:52 am

Wow. That’s nervy and inappropriate.

Add that to reason number 18 million that no one I know in real life reads this blog. Sheesh.

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18 Jossie Posie January 28, 2009 at 10:54 am

What would possess someone to think that that is even a slightly acceptable thing to do. I guess, not every one is graced with common sense.

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19 Meghan January 28, 2009 at 10:58 am

That’s really harsh. Hope things get better.

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20 debi January 28, 2009 at 11:07 am

WOW! I can’t believe someone would do that… ridiculous.

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21 Angela January 28, 2009 at 11:23 am

Wow…. that DID take things too far. Yikes. I’m so sorry to hear about that. I hope whoever did it feels like shit for prying.

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22 Cess January 28, 2009 at 11:25 am

How nerve-wracking… and intrusive. For the sake of your peace of mind, I really hope whoever it is confesses.

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23 poodlegoose January 28, 2009 at 12:37 pm

Oh, dear. What is wrong with people? Maybe, at least, they had good intentions, but you know where those lead…

I’m really sorry that this happened.

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24 Drew January 28, 2009 at 12:46 pm

Okay, thats quite creepy… I hope that you figure out the culprit, just so you know person.

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25 Renee January 28, 2009 at 1:14 pm

Wow – that’s pretty creepy. I’m sorry you’re having to deal with that.

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26 Vanessa January 28, 2009 at 1:14 pm

I am stunned that someone would do that. Talk about taking the “safety” out of your writing space.

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27 Lauren January 28, 2009 at 1:22 pm

Wow, really? That’s creepy and wrong. No one should talk for you.

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28 katelin January 28, 2009 at 1:33 pm

ugh, seriously some people need to take a step back and realize it’s not their life to mess with.

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29 Sara Jane January 28, 2009 at 2:53 pm

Who does that? Seriously?

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30 Paula January 28, 2009 at 4:07 pm

Good god, that is kinda scary. Loyal, I suppose. But scary!

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31 Mermanda January 28, 2009 at 4:14 pm

Oh man. Crazypants. Sorry to hear about that, Jenn. It stinks when you feel like you can’t say what you want on your own blog. This I understand.

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32 Lacey Bean January 28, 2009 at 4:27 pm

It’s unfortunate when people feel that they are trying to help, but yet just make things worse or totally overstep boundaries. That happened to another blogger, La, after she broke up with her boyfriend. People starting leaving NASTY comments on his blog. Totally uncalled for!

Ugh.

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33 Jessica January 28, 2009 at 6:16 pm

Whoever did went way beyond the boundary line. That was totally uncalled for. Let’s go witch huntin’!

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34 La Petite Belle January 28, 2009 at 6:55 pm

wow… that’s insane. At least on the upside you have people in your life that really care about you! But still, it’s just wrong, I’m sure you strong enough to handle your own stuff by your self.

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35 Princess Extraordinaire January 28, 2009 at 8:29 pm

How annoying! You definitely don’t need any of that crap going on…sorry that happened…

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36 blaez January 28, 2009 at 8:33 pm

*hugs* that is really uncalled for! i hope whoever did it appologizes for the un-needed drama.

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37 verybadcat January 29, 2009 at 1:08 pm

That’s some kind of scary. Creepy. Wrong. If you know who this is, I hope you address it with them. What a violation of you. Of your life, of your voice, of your thoughts and feelings. I’m sorry this happened to you.

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38 Tia January 29, 2009 at 11:07 pm

Whoa, that is super weird and creepy. Sorry to hear that you two broke up, and even more sorry to hear that people are sending him nasty emails.

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39 nicopolitan January 30, 2009 at 3:06 am

WOW that is intense. Though I do think you are handling living life in public very maturely and collected, I can’t help but share in the freakout.

Hopefully this person realizes what they did and just makes it a point to never do it again.

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40 andhari January 30, 2009 at 2:30 pm

Thats creepy, and reading this post I dont think the person will even tell you he or she did that though.
Thats completely not the right thing to do, urgh..

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41 Kaci January 30, 2009 at 7:55 pm

Yikes. That just plain sucks. I hope it all works out and you don’t have to stop writing about your life!

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