Comments on: A letter to myself

By: tiay

tiay — Sun, 19 Oct 2008 12:32:42 +0000

I actually came here via google looking to find out if deleting a mii cuases the high scores to go away (did it?), but then I read the whole thing because it reminded me of my own situation. It’s been 6 months. … and 4 days. I hope it gets better.

By: akakarma

akakarma — Tue, 10 Jun 2008 12:06:45 +0000

I’m having a PTSD attack. Hit the nail on the head- hugs!

By: Fabulously Broke

Fabulously Broke — Sun, 11 May 2008 15:46:40 +0000

It’s hard, I know. That’s why when I left my last one, I gave him EVERYTHING of ours, and kept only what was ‘personally’ mine.
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Yup.. and it cost me a lot of cash in the end, but at least I don’t feel as guilty and I don’t have to look at all the things we did together as a couple like playing the Wii, sitting on OUR couch with OUR tables and OUR pillows…. it’s all gone.

By: Sarah

Sarah — Fri, 09 May 2008 15:32:14 +0000

I didn’t look at my beautiful road bike purchased with him for over a year. When I finally had to move it, I broke down into tears…but eventually, a few days after the confrontation, I started to ride again. And now, it’s one of the only recreational activities that is purely my own - I’m so glad I picked it up again :).

By: ingrid

ingrid — Fri, 09 May 2008 10:04:01 +0000

You are fabulous.

By: tearsinmycoffee

tearsinmycoffee — Mon, 05 May 2008 04:59:50 +0000

Jenn,
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Great post. So much easier to put it all into words than to actually do it, isn’t it. It will take time and as your last paragraph said, it’s ok to feel the hurt and anger. Admit you’ve been hurt, embrace it and let it move you to the next level…the better level.
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Hopefully you’ll be able to look back at this post and realize that you’ve arrived at the better level. I hope it’s sooner rather than later. \
Hugs,
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By: ToKisstheCook

ToKisstheCook — Sat, 03 May 2008 15:33:12 +0000

Listen to the voice Jenn, she’s saying all of it…and she’s saying it in that hilarious, bittersweet way we all know and love.

By: srah

srah — Sat, 03 May 2008 13:19:24 +0000

I thought I was over my ex-boyfriend, but nine months after we broke up, more than a year since we’d actually seen each other, I started crying because someone wrote on Facebook that she went hiking with him (just hiking!) and I realized that I have only gotten over him to the point where I can accept him not being with me so long as he is not with anyone else. \

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That said, it’s the first time in six months that I’ve gotten upset over our breakup… so it gets better (kind of).

By: Annette

Annette — Sat, 03 May 2008 05:39:53 +0000

That was the most encouraging letter that you could ever gotten. You are the best advice giver.

By: freeandflawed

freeandflawed — Sat, 03 May 2008 05:09:14 +0000

Sobe -
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No worries. I won’t be deleting anyone. I enjoy you way too much.
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All -
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For the record, I’m not looking for a rebound. I just want to heal. He has a good heart..he’s just lost I guess.