Comments on: Oops…forgot a title

By: erikka

erikka — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 16:23:09 +0000

i agree with Noelle in finding another outlet for your feelings.
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blog friends and the blog world are great…but there is a separation in my mind between the blog world and I hate to say it, but the REAL world.
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some things are not meant to be public, but private. or shared with close individuals, or worked out on your own.

By: Noelle

Noelle — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 13:08:09 +0000

When I was breaking up with my bf, it was the same thing. I knew that he was still reading, and I knew that other people we know were reading, so I couldn’t use my blog for a feelings outlet. So what I did was just write stuff down in a word document. Sure, I didn’t get the “we’re with you” comments that I kind of wanted, but it was cathartic, and now that the worst part of the storm has passed, I’m glad I didn’t say anything publicly in a moment of passion.

By: kali

kali — Mon, 14 Apr 2008 00:42:38 +0000

welcome to the reason my blog is currently private….blech.
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email me if you need to chat about it…god only knows I can use some girl chat! kdub429 at gmail dot com

By: tia

tia — Sun, 13 Apr 2008 22:33:33 +0000

maybe a paper journal or something? you need to let it out!!

By: alexa

alexa — Sun, 13 Apr 2008 19:09:14 +0000

i feel you sister. that has got to be tough hunny. you’re a smart girl and you’ll figure out how to fix the situation.
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but don’t forget what YOU want.

By: Deutlich

Deutlich — Sun, 13 Apr 2008 15:23:46 +0000

I’m in a funked up headspace at the moment, and I can’t really come up with anything witty or helpful.
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I will offer cyber hugs though.. so..
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:::HUGS:::

By: Michelle & the City

Michelle & the City — Sun, 13 Apr 2008 14:21:47 +0000

i can completely relate to this post jenn. after my breakup last year i kind of let loose and wrote whatever i wanted knowing he was reading. sometimes i regret it because i did it out of anger, but other times i’m glad that i wrote down how i really felt at that time in my life so if i ever look back i can remember.

By: Clueless Cat

Clueless Cat — Sun, 13 Apr 2008 14:04:33 +0000

I totally know how you’re feeling. I was debating for a while whether to tell my (ex)bf about my blog, but everyone told me not too so i didn’t, and i’m so glad i didn’t! maybe you could do a password protected post? (haven’t tried that yet myself…)
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i hope you’re feeling better, email me anytime if you just wanna vent (or for whatever)!

By: Just K

Just K — Sat, 12 Apr 2008 23:07:58 +0000

Thats tough - its one of the main reasons i started my blog on wordpress. I did blog on MySpace where everyone knew me (family, friends, etc). You need a venting post, blogging, journaling, something!

By: tokissthecook

tokissthecook — Sat, 12 Apr 2008 22:07:50 +0000

Damn straight. I feel like this is probably the #1 issue that comes up around here. I think about starting an anonymous blog a few times a week. But then I would still up wanting to be known in some ways and I’d be right back where I started.
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I hate that this shit is going down. Hopefully we don’t wait till May if you need a cupcake klatch.