Comments on: Effort

By: freeandflawed

freeandflawed — Tue, 19 Feb 2008 22:36:11 +0000

Erikka -
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His job did have him travel to Iceland a few times a year, but we never talked about moving there. He did mention once that he couldn’t live there…but things have changed I guess and he’s considering it now.
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Thank you for the good thoughts and positive vibes

By: Erikka

Erikka — Tue, 19 Feb 2008 22:24:23 +0000

Did this just come out of nowhere? Have you two ever talked about future possibilities, moving to a foreign country being one of them? Or is this a completely weird turn of events that happened to him?
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You are trying to be a trooper…I’m sending you some good thoughts and positive vibes…
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Peace.

By: freeandflawed

freeandflawed — Tue, 19 Feb 2008 02:20:53 +0000

Sobe -
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I love the idea of punching a bag of Jell-O. I’d be afraid that a Ziploc baggie might burst though. We might need to duct tape it a bit. But really, thank you so much for being so supportive. I cannot imagine the spot it puts you in. I really appreciate all of your support, direction and advice. You’re such a wonderful person and both I and the BF think the world of you as well.

By: Sobe

Sobe — Tue, 19 Feb 2008 02:18:27 +0000

I love you very much and want the best for you.
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I will comment more in email since it’s hard for me, being BF’s best friend and all. Still, I think the world of you and while things happen for a reason, it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t totally suck and we shouldn’t fill a gallon-size Ziploc baggie full of raspberry jello and punch the shit out of it.

By: freeandflawed

freeandflawed — Tue, 19 Feb 2008 02:07:40 +0000

I don’t know how to reply to all of you. It would take at least 30 minutes if I tried.
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Thank you muchly for the support and advice. I appreciate it more than you know.

By: Noelle

Noelle — Mon, 18 Feb 2008 19:15:13 +0000

I’d like to send you some hugs now. I hope things pick up for you!

By: Virginia

Virginia — Mon, 18 Feb 2008 17:58:14 +0000

::more hugs::
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Whatever happens, just trust that it’ll work out for the best. And I agree with everyone else…be sure that you do what YOU want to do.
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The meet-up in Chicago sounds so fun! Any chance you all want to come to Columbus? No? Yeah, I wouldn’t either, haha.

By: legallyheidi

legallyheidi — Mon, 18 Feb 2008 05:11:30 +0000

the flowers are beautiful Hope they help make you smile <3

By: curlysue

curlysue — Mon, 18 Feb 2008 00:34:12 +0000

I agree with tearsinmycoffee….you need to decide Jenn what you want. You may love him and want him to be with you, but if this guy can’t support you with how you are feeling and even address the topic with you then he’s not the one. Something this important should be discussed between a couple and if he isn’t willing to do so then what happens if you are together down the road and something else happens—he just stick his head in the sand like an ostrich and try to avoid. That’s not communicating. My Mom’s ex-husband did that and that was a major factor that ended their marriage. I hope you feel better and we can chat if you want and are ready! Love the flowers and that was very sweet of your grandma. Chin up sweetie!

By: erin

erin — Sun, 17 Feb 2008 22:57:04 +0000

I’m glad you came out to the meet-up (and I’m hoping it made you feel just a little better). I didn’t want to bring up the whole Iceland thing, but I’m glad you’re talking about it here.
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You are awesome – don’t forget that.